Adult Star Wars Costumes

As October draws near, you will notice the countless men, women and children gearing up for Halloween. There is just something wonderful about the cool, crisp fall air and colorful autumn leaves. This is why so many people get excited, and start searching high and low for great costumes. Naturally you want something you can look great in, but shock your friends and neighbors with as well. Maybe this year you need to check into adult Star Wars costumes. There are so many of these on the market these days. Furthermore, they look so realistic, and do a wonderful job of representing the characters from the films.

There are a number of places you can shop at for adult Star Wars costumes, werewolf masks, teen witch costumes, vampire fangs, fake blood, and much more. If you have never checked out your local surrounding in September or October, you really should. After all, most areas do offer some Halloween decorations, costumes, and supplies to meet a variety of preferences and needs. Even if you reside in a smaller town, you may notice that each year when All Hallows Eve approaches, a costume superstore opens up to suit the season. These large shops typically offer a wide array of adult Star Wars costumes, super hero outfits, monster masks, and countless props.

As you must know, there are a number of Halloween superstores online that sell an assortment of werewolf costumes, monster masks, zombie outfits, vampire blood, and adult Star Wars costumes. In this day and age, you can find most types of costumes for adults and teenagers alike. There are also plenty of scary, beautiful, creepy, and cute costumes to suit children, toddlers, and infants as well. It all just depends on what you are in the market for and what you have in mind for this Halloween.

The trick is to brainstorm a bit as September approaches. This will help you narrow down the costume ideas you have. Once you do this, you can begin comparing prices. Dealers like Halloween Express, Spirit Halloween, Costume Express, and Buy Costumes will all have a great deal to offer, regardless of whether you are seeking out adult Star Wars costumes, new vampire for a woman, a kid’s monster mask, or a few makeup products to suit the spooky occasion. However, regardless of where you shop for Halloween costumes, scary decorations, spooky props, fake blood, and creepy masks, you should try to o it before October hits. This way you are much more likely to get the costume that you want in the size you need. Unfortunately even Star Wars costumes sell out quickly.

5 Ingredients For Great Christian Married Sex

As a counselor, a common complaint I hear from Christian married couples is unsatisfactory sexuality. What makes great Christian sex? Here are 5 essential ingredients for not just healthy sex, but great Christian sex!

1. Naked and Not Ashamed

Genesis 2:25 gives the building blocks to a solid foundation of a healthy marriage and sexuality: Intimacy. Dictionary.com defines shame as “the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, and ridiculous.” Adam and Eve had just met, and yet they felt “naked and not ashamed.” There was an emotional, physical, and spiritual safety. Great sex is a by product of such intimacy between two people.

2. Fly Solo with your Spouse

The sweetest sex occurs by taking the time to nurture the relationship with one person over time. Some say staying married to the same person is boring. Quite the contrary! It becomes an adventure to walk the twists and turns with your mate on this journey called life. We get to rediscover our spouse a new over time with the added benefit of knowing them from the past.

3. Have it!

In the busyness of life, it is amazing how easy sex is neglected in married couples. This can happen in all phases of marriage: newlywed, small children, adolescent children and empty nest. Somehow we think great sex comes when everything has to be perfect: the lighting, the place, the music. These are the icing, but sometimes you just have the cake, which can be equally satisfying.

4. Pleasurable techniques

Each spouse desires to satisfy their spouse sexually, yet may feel inadequate because they may lack the practical know-how. As a counselor, I usually suggest married spouses begin with just stimulating the erogenous zones of the body – the genitals and breasts, and then begin communicating what is pleasurable. Find some resources to educate yourself on the practice of lovemaking, and implement them.

5. Communication

Communication is simply talking about everything that makes sex better. Ambience, places, technique, and frequency are good ideas to begin to discuss with your spouse. Your spouse cannot please you sexually if he/she is unaware of your preferences. You and your spouse can become the best sex coaches for your marriage if you are willing to communicate your sexual needs and desires.

What about you? Are you experiencing great sex as a Christian married couple? Perhaps you need to find some time to have sex. Or maybe you need to get some valuable resources to educate yourself on better techniques to satisfy you spouse. Are you rediscovering your spouse? Remember, God desires sex for married couples to not be good, but great!

What Part Does Sex Play in Casual Relationships?

I received a wonderful email last week raising a question about the definition of ‘casual relationship’ opposed to ‘serious relationship’. I have some thoughts on this but I would love to throw this out to all of you for your thoughts as well.

The person who sent the question thought that, for her, a casual relationship becomes a serious relationship when sex comes into play. The person she was having the conversation with on this topic, a male, suggested that even casual relationships could be sexual.

I’m going to agree with both and I think what it comes down to is not so much the definition of ‘relationship’ but more the definition of ‘sex’. Sex can be present in casual relationships though, for many, this might be considered more something a man would do rather than a woman. The argument here is often that while sex for a man can be purely a physical act, for a woman sex is always emotional. The truth about this is that, I believe, that sex can be purely physical for a woman as well.

On the contrary though, sex in a serious relationship is more likely to be an emotional act for both people as this now becomes less about satisfying a selfish physical need for sex and more of a representation of one person’s love and care for another by which sex becomes more a selfless act of pleasing another person.

So what then is the definition of ‘relationship’? This one sent me scurrying to the dictionary which said, amongst other things, that “relationship is an emotional connection between people, sometimes involving sexual relations”. Obviously there can be many kinds of relationships between people but I guess we most often think of relationship as some intimate connection between two people and if this is serious then indeed there may be a sexual connection as well though not necessarily.

So, as my reader also suggested, “there is no answer to this, because of our sexual biases (or desires)”, but a topic that is well worthwhile opening up for discussion.

What do you think?

If you would like to enter into this conversation please add your comments via the link at the bottom of my blog.

So until next time – Relate with Love

Lidy Seysener